5.23.2013

Shaping up... to be a Dad?

Yeah, that's right people. It's me, the 14th most popular tag on the blog, otherwise known as Megan's husband, Daniel. You may have heard of me in posts such as this or this, and today I'm taking over this blog! I'm here to celebrate a very special birthday girl--my wife Megan.

A recent photo of Megan.

I guess I'm the lucky one, because I know Megan better than anybody. Better than herself. So when I tell you that she's awesome, I'm kind of the authority. There are literally (pronounced "lit-trally") thousands of reasons why Megan is the best, but I thought I would share a few of my favorites (in no particular order):

5. She's funny. I remember the first time I thought I had a chance with Megan, and it was when I made a stupid-and-not-entirely-politically-correct joke, and she laughed! She got it! She has such an amazing sense of humor, and can find something to smile about in pretty much any situation. She even makes my family laugh, and humor is almost part of the Tenney religion. To give you an example, our new favorite thing to say when our kids are acting up is to look at each other and wryly proclaim, "Yay, kids." I mean, everything is going haywire and she can grin and make me chuckle And speaking of kids...

4. She's an amazing mom. Seriously, she is so great with our kids. She works hard to make them happy and to make them better people, and I am amazed with the work that she does day after day, just to keep things running around here. I don't know if you know, but for a big chunk of this school year, she was working a full-time job... and a part time job... and running our house... and she'd still apologize when the laundry wasn't done! She's basically Superman, if Superman was a girl. And a mom. And from Maine. And didn't have any powers, except the power of being awesome. Speaking of awesome...

3. She is hot. I know I'm supposed to say "beautiful" or "gorgeous" or something classy like that. But no, she's straight up hot. She would probably kill me if I linked to the post of her in her purple bikini, so I won't. But I will tell you the post is called "Shredding It" and there's a search bar to the right... Go on, find it, I'll wait here. Did you find it? I know, right? Find some of the other pictures of Megan on the blog here. I know what you're thinking, that girl is crazy hot. I know, because I'm thinking it too! I could elaborate, but I'm afraid it might push this blog post into PG-13 territory. But speaking of thinking...

2. She's smart. This is perhaps the most attractive thing about Megan. I've said it to her before, and I'll say it again: she is the smartest person I've ever met. I say with humility that I have been blessed with an active mind, and the ability to think. But if there's one person that can consistently best me intellectually, it's Megan. If there's something she doesn't know or doesn't understand, it's just because she's chosen not to put the time into it (and instead put the time into being a great mom--see #4) and not because of any lack of brainpower. I'm so proud of everything that she's accomplished, and I know that there is so much left for her to do in her life. Which brings me to...

1. She's mine. Megan, I love you more than anyone or anything in the world. We've had good days and bad days, but I'd take our worst day together over the best day possible with anyone else. You're the only girl I've truly loved, and I count every day with you a blessing and a treasure. I am in awe of who you are and what you do. The rest of our lives, or the next wave. I love you.

And so, my fellow Shaper-Uppers (or are you Kiddle McGriddles? I can't remember) feel free to stop by the comments, share something you like about Megan, or just wish her a Happy Birthday! Until next time...

-Daniel

5.22.2013

There IS a Cure for the Summertime Blues!

This article is sponsored by BabbaCo by Jessica Kim.

When I was 8 or 9, I remember a day during the summer that was one of the best days of my life. In the mid-morning we went to a cook-out (that's New Englandese for BBQ) at our relatives' house, and on the spot decided we'd all go to the local theme park afterward (yep, this one, where I later met my husband). After a day of food, rides, and general summer fun, we arrived home and checked the mail. Lo and behold, we had received our monthly subscription of a kids' activity box and had even more fun completing the crafts and activities while my mom made dinner.

I remember thinking that that day was perfect, and considering how I still remember it now, it must have been pretty epic!

Flash forward 20 years, and subscription boxes are becoming super popular. They are available for beauty products, "green" products, clothing, accessories, etc. They are also available for children! *Cue angels singing*

Summer days are long. And, living in Phoenix, summer is not our ideal "outdoor" time, because it is so hot. And that results in bored kids hanging around the house, and too much iPad time!

There are lots of ways to cure boredom with games, toys, and a little creativity, but why not get a little help? *Cue BabbaBox!*


The BabbaBox is about so much more than just arts & crafts.  Each month includes a different combination of hands on projects, books, games, sensory activities, kid-friendly science, imaginative play and more.  And everything included is designed by BabbaCo’s early childhood experts to develop important critical thinking skills – of course while having a ton of fun in the process.

BabbaBox is offering a "Summer Survival Pack" which includes three boxes, to be sent in June, July, and August. The themes are so adorable!


June: Deep Sea
Take a voyage to the bottom of the sea, enjoy a colorful book about some of our favorite creatures, make and plan an adorable fishing game, plus so many oceany activities.

July: Camouflage Animals
Where’d who go? Not only is camouflage on animals totally cool, but it also services a purpose – to help protect them. This month we will learn about all the amazing kinds of camouflage, play a little hide and seek ourselves and other well disguised fun!

August: Pirate Treasure
Bring your sea legs! This will be aarugably our most fun theme yet, as we set out on an adventure, pirate-style. We will sing songs, meet famous pirates through an amazing book and become experts in life on the high seas!

I know my own kids would LOVE the treasures to be found inside these boxes, especially the Pirate one. Even Vanessa will put on a bandanna and say, "I'm a pirate! Arrgh!"

Want to know possibly my favorite part about the BabbaBox? Most of the activities are ones that can be done by the kids on their own. Not that I don't like spending time with my kids (because I'd be in real trouble if that were the case!), but sometimes they need to entertain themselves. This will especially be the case this summer, as I'll be having a baby, and we'll be moving!

The BabbaBox is designed by parents who understand that different situations call for different solutions.  While sitting down and spending an hour doing a project with your kids is fun, the reality is sometimes you are juggling dinner and need something they can do relatively independently. 
Each BabbaBox includes solutions specifically designed for four different occasions that are part of all parents’ routines: TV Free Mornings, Sanity Saving Weeknight Activities, Purposeful Weekend Plan, and Story Time.

I've been considering signing up for a subscription box...and I may have found just the right one! I know we'll need some help getting through the hot hot days of summer, and it looks like BabbaBox is the "box" for the job!

There are several options for participating in the BabbaBox Summer Survival Pack:

Digital ($41.97)
BabbaBox ($56.97)
Premium Summer Survival Pack ($119.97)- includes extra activities and materials!

Use the coupon code “SURVIVE” at checkout to save 10% on any Summer Survival Pack, or sign up for their newsletter to unlock a coupon for 15% off!


Who knows? Maybe your BabbaBox will be part of the "perfect" day that your little ones will remember when they are grown and have kids of their own!


Bloggy Boot Camp

In April, I got to attend the Sits Girls' Bloggy Boot Camp in Phoenix. And I am finally, finally getting around to writing down my thoughts from the event!


If you have any intentions of making money from your blog, whether that means a little supplemental income or a living, this is the blog conference to attend. That was the focus of the two day event, as speaker after speaker shared their knowledge with us. Topics covered included: writing sponsored posts, pitching companies, branding, hiring help, legal advice, analytics, and so on. In addition to the speakers, we had time for networking, some fantastic catered meals, and a cocktail party to end both days.

The information shared over the two days was overwhelming, and I came home from both sessions with tons of thoughts to unload on my husband. Now going through my notes I can see the major points that struck a chord with me, and so I will share those with you now.

Speaker: Missy Mahar
  • Always respond to PR emails even if the opportunity doesn't apply to you. Tell them that you don't currently have any babies, but hey you do have a 2-year-old and a 5-year-old. 
  • Or at least tell them to contact again in the future with other opportunities.
Speaker: Kim Byers
  • Do what you love. 
  • Have a plan. 
  • Be great at (at least) one thing. [This statement stressed me out at first, but resulted in an epiphany about the focus of my blog. I wrote about it here.]
  • "If you're not nervous with a quote [when pitching a company], you're not asking for enough."
  • Identify companies that directly relate to your blog topics, follow them on social media, then pitch to them.
  • Stand out in a product campaign- give more than the company has asked for.
Speaker: Gigi Ross
She was my favorite speaker of the conference, because she covered exactly the topic I needed help with (writing killer sponsored posts), and she had lots of great ideas that I could start to implement immediately.
  • Entertain your reader while informing them. Sponsored posts do not have to be boring or a departure from your regular content.
  • Integrate sponsored content seamlessly with your regular content. [Now I try to see if sponsored opportunities can be paired with an item on my bucket list, so that I can write about the product/company while using the opportunity to complete a goal. See this post as an example.]
  • You should be refusing more offers than you accept. [Something that's hard to do when you first start getting paid offers!]
  • Be selective. She talked about how she turned down an amazing offer with a fast food company because she had recently been writing about her commitment to eating healthy and knew that the inconsistency wouldn't fly with her readers. Uphold your reputation and credibility.
  • Be different and creative with your post. Your stories should shine through. Make it uniquely yours.
  • Hiring help is a great option to free up your time so that you can focus on the big picture, moving to the next step, etc.
  • You don't have to hire someone full time. In this partnership, Sarah worked for Meagan about 7 hours a week. It earned Sarah some extra income while not taking over her life, and it freed Meagan up from a lot of detail work so she could work on "big picture" stuff.
  • Tiffany chimed in with the idea of hiring a mother's helper (instead of hiring someone to help with your blog work, hire someone to watch your kids so you can focus on your blog work). She said that if you figure the work that you will put in can result in you earning $40 an hour, then pay your helper $10 an hour. Having someone come in to watch the kids and/or do a little light housework for a couple of hours a week can be a huge help!
Speaker: Casey Peterson
  • Pay attention to your most popular content and use that to guide your future content. Reshare popular older posts.
  • Google author rank is going to eventually replace page rank. Make sure you have authorship.
  • Keep your labels/tags/keywords to 3-5 per post, and make sure to use your top keyword in your title or first paragraph.
Speaker: Lynette Young
Lynette gave so many great tips on Google Plus that I can't narrow it down to just a few bullet points at the moment. I do, however, plan to do my next "Nitty Gritty" series on Google Plus, so I will cover this in more detail soon!

This was the last talk of the conference, and it was the one that had me jumping up and shouting "yes!" (in my head).
  • "If it's not a 'hell yeah!' it's a 'no.'"
  • "I don't owe anybody a 'yes' or an excuse why."
  • "I cannot be a stellar mom at the exact same time I'm being stellar at my business." [In other words, we can do both, but we'll go crazy trying to do everything at once.]
  • "Luck is the intersection of hard work and opportunity."
A few other thoughts about the conference:

1. There were several talks about getting a job in social media, corporate America, speaking at conferences, etc, which had me quoting Mitch Hedberg in my head:

"When you're in Hollywood and you're a comedian, everybody wants you to do things besides comedy. They say, 'OK, you're a stand-up comedian - can you act? Can you write? Write us a script.' It's as though if I were a cook and I worked my ass off to become a good cook, and they said, 'All right you're a cook - can you farm?"

Those talks had me, at first, thinking 'can we please get back to actually blogging, since we are bloggers?' But then I realized that although I'm not looking for a different or full-time job right now, the skills I'm acquiring through writing and managing a blog are viable, relevant skills for such potential future opportunities.

2. At one point near the end of the conference, someone asked us to raise our hands if our spouse "loves what you do" (meaning they like that we spend time blogging and support us in that endeavor). Without hesitation, I raised my hand high and was surprised to see very few other hands. I'm lucky that my husband is such a strong supporter of basically everything that I do. He has more faith in me than I do that I can succeed at whatever I attempt.

3. There were several opportunities for networking with no structure, such as at the cocktail party. I would not call myself a shy person, but I'm not particularly bold either. Basically I love to talk to people, but I'm not usually the one to start up the conversation. But put into this situation where I, for all intents and purposes, did not know anybody, I found that I rose to the occasion! You basically have to act like you belong. It may look like other people know each other, but that's not necessarily the case. After getting a drink and plate of food, I just joined a table that had an open spot. Confidence is key! Later on, I found myself wandering around with a drink in hand (soda, because I'm pregnant, and Mormon), and I saw another girl standing alone, and I approached her, read her nametag, and asked her about her blog. That doesn't sound like such a big deal now, but I was proud of myself anyway. And it turns out that she was Michelle from Fun on a Dime, who lives in my town, went to the church I go to now (before she moved across town), and knows some of the same people!

So that's a lot of information, but hopefully there's something useful in there! I highly recommend Bloggy Boot Camp, so check to see if they are coming to a city near you! Thanks Sits Girls!



5.21.2013

The Fairy Hobmother Takes Over


Psst...hey! HEY! Is she gone?

Oh good, she's taking a "pregnancy nap." It's just you and me...The Fairy Hobmother!

That's right, Shaper-Uppers, I'm taking over the blog this evening to continue spreading my light and joy across the blogosphere.

You see, I hop all around this lovely blog land, in search of awesome blogs with which to grace my presence. I bestow the blogger with a special gift in exchange for a quick post and a link to my fairy overlords at appliancesonline.co.uk.

I think I'll leave some fairy footprints on Megan's blog, just for funsies...


 


Well, I can't stay long, but if you want me to magically appear on YOUR blog, all you have to do is leave a comment on this post, link to your blog, and you may just be my next stop!

P.S. I slipped a $50 Amazon gift card under Megan's pillow in exchange for this little blog takeover. She'll get it when she wakes up.

Gotta fly! See you around!